Where’s The Gratitude?

In today’s world, gratitude seems to be like the missing Loch Ness Monster. Genuine gratitude, oh you hear about it, just like Nessy and get the occasional sighting but true gratitude is rare these days. It seems like everyone expects services and things in this life and have very little gratitude for anything. The “give me” world we live in brings the worst out in many people. I ask myself so often, Where’s The Gratitude?

What has happened to people? I find that many people expect gratitude for what they are doing, a job well done, a service offered, a gift given but provide no gratitude in return. They lack actual gratitude in their own lives. They are moaners and whiners and fail to see the simple most wonderful things that could bring them gratitude and joy if they would only open their eyes and hearts. Sadly, many can’t see beyond their own selfish needs. Life throws them a few lemons and all is doomed.

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So why am I complaining about other peoples lack of gratitude? Because a society with a lack of gratitude is doomed to fail. When all people can think about is their own needs we fail to find joy in the little things. We stop helping others, and our lack of gratitude rubs off on those around us. It makes me sad to see so many people missing out on the joy in their lives. You can’t have true joy without gratitude. You can’t live the life your suppose to without gratitude and you can’t reap the benefits if you can’t find things to be grateful for in your everyday life.

Lack of Gratitude is Contagious

Lack of gratitude is contagious, you see it everyday. If you constantly complain and look for obstacles at every corner, you are going to find them. The people you associate with will also pick up your lack of gratitude, or worse yet you will pick up theirs. Be careful who you associate with, if you have negative friends or family find others that inspire you.

Life is not all roses, sometimes it sucks. Those who find Joy and Happiness either have a natural sense of gratitude or learn how to be grateful.

I have had my share of heartache, there have been times that I have wanted to curl up and complain. But, I make it a point everyday to count my blessings and have gratitude, even for the smallest of things. I recommend you do the same.

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So, what I am saying here is; you have to find gratitude in the small things in your life to obtain true happiness. No matter what pain, hardships or privilege you’ve experienced, without gratitude you will never find true joy.

I found an amazing book that I highly recommend you buy and start reading, writing and coloring your way to gratitude and joy! The book is called, 52 Weeks of Gratitude Journal and is compilation of 52 different authors and their stories of loss, grief, parenting, adventure, hardships, death, disability, life lessons and their gratitude.

52 Weeks of Gratitude Journal

This isn’t your average journal. It’s not just filled with empty lines and short inspirational quotes or questions. This book has 52 unique and amazing gifts of gratitude for you. Each author, many best selling authors, tell you their story and how gratitude either changed everything for them or helped them find peace and joy during difficult times.

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When I purchased this book I didn’t know what to expect. I have owned many journals before but none like this. The stories are awe inspiring and if you are lacking gratitude the book will help you see the joys of your life. If you have, or are a person that is full of gratitude, the stories will warm your heart and rekindle some feelings you might have lost.

Who Needs This Book

  • Someone that wants to feel good every day
  • Someone that lacks gratitude and needs to find some
  • Journal fanatics will find this book amazing, inspiring and fun
  • Artists because there is a fun art page to color each week and let your mind and creative mojo flow
  • Families that need to bond could work on this book together. Each writing something they are grateful for daily or weekly as a family
  • Couples! This is a big one, I think couples should do this book together, it will bring them closer and they will learn much about each other
  • You, you need this book because it will help you feel better about your life and find joy in the little things that matter
  • Teenagers need this book because society is sadly coming at them from all sides and they need to understand and feel gratitude
  • People struggling with mental or chronic illness need this book. When you are sick it is hard to find the bright side or gratitude. This book will help find joy when sometimes it seems hopeless.

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Your family and friends would be so stoked if they got this for a gift this year. Imagine putting together the perfect gift basket for less than $60. Here are my suggestions to fill that basket or bucket for your friends, family, co-worker, neighbors, or anyone else that needs to feel good.

Gratitude Ideas If You’re Stuck and Can’t Find Reasons for Gratitude

  • The air you breathe
  • Your family
  • Your pets
  • The home you live in
  • Friends
  • Beautiful colors of fall, or fresh snow in winter
  • The food you eat
  • Your health
  • The ones that have stood by you through thick and thin
  • Your Spouse
  • The sun against your face
  • The sound of the ocean
  • The ability to read and write
  • Your Church
  • Warmth on a cold night
  • Gas in your car
  • The job you go to each day
  • Your life, a luxury not everyone gets!
  • The bird outside your window
  • Funny videos on TV or social media
  • The clothes on your back and closet
  • Paved roads
  • A nice glass of wine
  • Flowers
  • The smile on a child’s face
  • The taste of Chocolate
  • The trees in your yard, city or surrounding area, in fact if you’d like to know the impact of trees and your health Click Here.

Why is Gratitude Important

Gratitude reduces complaining. When you feel gratitude you have less to complain about and can enjoy the small gifts of your life.

Gratitude when expressed, shows others that you care about what they are doing and may help them to have gratitude in return. It is contagious.

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Gratitude affects your overall attitude, without gratitude you will be angry, sad, lonely and depressed. It is my opinion that gratitude shapes your entire life for success, family, friends and a life of joy. Gratitude will enhance your work, family, happiness and self image.

What Does Gratitude Mean To Me

Gratitude isn’t something, you can’t hold it in your hand, it is a feeling that lifts your inner soul. People frequently ask me how I stay up beat, or happy after having so much tragedy in my family. I tell them, “sometimes it’s not easy, there are day I am not happy but the one thing I will never lose is the gratitude for what I do have. I don’t dwell on what I have lost, but what I have”.

My gratitude warms me whenever I start to think of the loss or pain, it’s like an automatic switch that goes off in my head. It helps to think about what I have, not what I have lost. I hope that you too can find the gratitude you need to fill your life with love and joy.

I’d love to hear about what brings you joy? Does gratitude fill your life? What do you have that makes you grateful?

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